Civilination

Taking a stand against online harassment, character assassination and violence

  • Home
  • About
    • In the News
    • What We Do
  • CiviliNation Academy
  • Resource Center
    • Resources to Protect Yourself Online
    • Attorney List
    • Anti-Harassment, Civility & Associated Research Organizations
    • Fact-Checking Sites
    • News & Media Literacy, and Misinformation & Disinformation Resources
    • Privacy Rights Organizations
    • Recommended Books
    • Investigative Journalism Organizations
    • Using SecureDrop To Communicate with News Organizations
    • Ethics
    • Barometer
  • News

Online Hatred Risks Silencing Others

August 14, 2013 by CiviliNation

It’s disheartening to realize that some people believe that online speech which isn’t legally actionable is automatically socially benign. In other words, if it’s not illegal, so their thinking goes, it must be ok. But while law and ethics overlap, they are not synonymous. There are plenty of laws that are antiquated or downright idiotic. And there is plenty of online speech that is legal yet unquestionably unfairly harmful to targets and victims. One of the biggest problems that attacking and hateful speech causes is the resulting silencing of others.

While there may not be physical or legal halting of targets’ or victims’ ability to continue to engage online, the psychological effects of the threats or attacks nevertheless place shackles on them. There may not be any outward signs, but the deleterious effects are as strong as if they were physically bound.

Recognition of this fact was an important force in the creation of CiviliNation’s mission “to foster an online culture where every person can freely participate in a democratic, open, rational and truth-based exchange of ideas and information, without fear or threat of being the target of unwarranted abuse, harassment or lies.”

The silencing effect is fortunately now starting to be addressed by the media. The recent Salon article Women’s free speech is under attack* by Kelly Diels states that “the threats and trolling women receive online silence them just as effectively as any censorship.”

Diels goes on to explain that the “coordinated campaigns of trolling, doxing and Ddos attacks are explicitly designed not only to silence you, but also to embarrass you, scare you, harass you, get government agencies to investigate you, vandalize your property, make you move, get you fired, ruin your life.”

Suggestions for addressing the problem vary. On Twitter, for example, one of the most abuse-prone platforms currently online, it ranges from creating a Twitter button that would make the reporting of threats and abuse easier (something we previously discussed here) to actively blocking attackers via the Block Bot, which describes itself as “Helping you ignore people from annoyance to bigot on Twitter.” (Block Bot features three different blocking levels, from Level 1 which deals with the worst trolls, as well as impersonators and stalkers, to Level 3 which deals with individuals who might not be actual haters but are nevertheless obnoxious.) Meanwhile, journalist Quinn Norton argues that having conversations about the root causes of the hatred* behind the online attacks is critical: “It’s not always a pleasant conversation, but we need to have it. Just shutting down the voices we don’t like doesn’t make the sentiments go away.”

We agree that in addition to technological tools that can help people protect themselves against vicious online attacks, education is vital. We need to teach people how to create a strong online reputation, how to monitor their online footprint, how to safeguard their privacy and personal information, how to effectively engage with others (and how to effectively disengage), and teach people what their legal rights are.

 

* NOTE: While the sources mentioned here focus on online attacks against women, a group that continues to bear much of the brunt of online hatred, attacks are unfortunately not limited to this group. Attacks are also aimed at other vulnerable individuals or groups, or those otherwise perceived as particularly socially threatening.

 

(Photo source: “Rage” by SignorDeFazio http://www.flickr.com/photos/37912579@N08/3650954991

 

 

Filed Under: Cybercivility Tagged With: Anger Management, Civility, Conflict Resolution, Cyberbullying, Defamation, Freedom of Speech, Law, Reputation

Troll Avenue

August 5, 2013 by CiviliNation

In Civility in the Digital Age: How Companies and People Can Triumph over Haters, Trolls, Bullies and Other Jerks, trolls are described as “attention-seekers whose sole goal is to wreak havoc online for the purpose of fun and pleasure. Moreover, they thrive on the perceived weakness, naiveté, and emotional reactions of their victims.”

But trolls aren’t a homogenous group comprised simply of stereotypically angry young men, they also consist of “young women, and men easily old enough to be fathers and grandfathers.” While there are many different types of trolls, one interesting observation about trolls is that they seem to be increasingly gravitating to Twitter. Maybe it’s due to the ease with which they can create trouble (no need to get particularly lengthy with insults or attacks, 140 character is all that’s needed!) and the popularity and high-profile nature of the platform.

Trolls are making international headlines again because they’ve publicly gone after Caroline Criado-Perez for successfully lobbying the Bank of England to put novelist Jane Austen’s image on the new £10 note, as well as British Member of Parliament Stella Creasy for supporting her.

Here are some examples of what we’re talking about:

Source: https://twitter.com/CCriadoPerez/status/363718199029682176/photo/1)

Source: https://twitter.com/CCriadoPerez/status/363721857247096832/photo/1

Some of the attackers’ real identities have now been revealed, according to MailOnline. One of the accused was reportedly unrepentant for his actions and, when asked whether he felt his behavior was “normal and made him proud,” responded “Yes, yes I do. And yes it does make me proud.”

Sadly, this example is but one of many that occur on Twitter on a regular basis. Based on recent events, a petition therefore called for the creation of a Twitter button that would make the reporting of threats and abuse easier. (It should be noted that not all experts believe such a button is an effective solution; Dr. Janet Sternberg, author of the book Misbehavior in Cyber Places, for example, has misgivings.) In response to this widespread concern about the frightening and unconscionable attacks occurring on the platform, Tony Wang, general manager of Twitter UK, stated that a list of changes would be occurring on Twitter, changes that would apply worldwide. These include an update to the Twitter Rules and in-Tweet button to report abuse (already available on the iOS Twitter app and on the mobile web, and scheduled to be available on Twitter.com in September).

Dr. Claire Hardaker, a professor of Linguistics and English Literature who studies aggression, deception, and manipulation in computer-mediated communication, says that we need to examine the root causes of such misbehavior in order to effectively deal with it. She argues that “it seems both morally and logically better to face the problem head-on. This could take the form of training and education for those amenable to change, or convictions and prison terms for those who are not.”

Education is an important part of bringing about necessary behavioral and legal changes. That’s why at CiviliNation, we take very seriously our role in helping bring about positive social change. We hope you’ll continue to support us in our efforts. And we hope you’ll consider making a contribution to the creation of the Academy for Online Conflict Management. UPDATE: The Indigogo campaign is over, but the fundraising is far from over. You can give by clicking on the big button below.

Donate Now

 

(Image: Troll Ave” by Andrés Monroy-Hernández http://www.flickr.com/photos/amonroy/2379870487)

 

 

Filed Under: Cybercivility Tagged With: Anger Management, Civility, Conflict Resolution, Cyberbullying, Cybercivility, Defamation, Reputation

Y’all Connect Conference

July 23, 2013 by CiviliNation

 

 

 

 

 

CiviliNation founder Andrea Weckerle gave two presentations at the Y’all Connect conference in Birmingham, Alabama: Psychology of Online Antagonists and Your 30-Day Plan for Conflict Management Online.

 

 

Filed Under: In the News Tagged With: Anger Management, Conflict Resolution, Defamation, Freedom of Speech, Law, Reputation

CiviliNation Launches Fundraising Campaign to Create the CiviliNation Academy for Online Conflict Management

July 8, 2013 by CiviliNation

CiviliNation is launching a fundraising campaign to create the CiviliNation Academy for Online Conflict Management!

We want to build a global resource library that will become THE place to go get real-world information and expert advice when you face the misunderstandings, clashes, and reputational hits that happen online on a daily basis. Think “Khan Academy” but with a conflict management focus. That’s our goal!

Featuring a combination of animated videos teaching core concepts and videos showcasing experts in online reputation management, privacy protection, identity management and legal solutions, the CiviliNation Academy for Online Conflict Management will house a library containing hundreds of videos.

These videos will teach everything people need to know about strategically managing online problems, effectively dealing with critics and haters, staying calm during disagreements, maintaining a strong and positive online footprint, and knowing what legal options they have against online detractors and reputational smears.

And it’ll be offered in bite-sized chunks of information viewable back-to-back or whenever there are a couple of minutes available.

And best of all, the CiviliNation Academy will be available online to everyone around the world. For FREE.

Learn more about the campaign and how you can help support it by clicking igg.me/at/civilination-academy. UPDATE: The Indigogo campaign is over, but the fundraising is far from over. You can give by clicking on the big button, and we hope you will consider it.

Donate Now

Filed Under: In the News Tagged With: Anger Management, Conflict Resolution, Cyberbullying, Law, Reputation

Formula 1 Blog Shows how Motor Sports Fans Can Come Together to Share Their Passion in a Fun and Civil Way

June 3, 2013 by CiviliNation

Billing itself “the online Journal of F1 opinion,” Formula1blog brings together Formula 1 fans from around the globe to share their passion about the sport in an intelligent, mature and civil way. Created in 2005, it calls itself  “something different and fresh, not just rag chewing with a bunch of tobacco-spitting goof balls who want to pretend to appear as reputable F1 news sites” and certainly not a site for “forum troll’s, flamers and disenchanted malcontents.” Sounds great, doesn’t it? Read the Q&A with F1B founder Todd McCandless below and find out why this approach has been so successful.

CiviliNation: Tell us about formula1 blog.

Todd McCandless: Formula1blog.com started in 2005 with a mission to become the Journal of F1 Opinion. We enjoy nearly 40,000 downloads of our weekly podcasts per month (which is the highest and most rated F1 podcast on iTunes) and millions of pageview per year.

CiviliNation: On your website it says “When I started Formula1blog.com back in 2005, I did so because I could not find a safe harbor for new and veteran Formula One fans to discuss their beloved sport without trolls, bullies and flamers.” What kinds of problems did you see?

Todd McCandless: It was a common theme, to be honest. Whether it was blogs, forums or websites, the engagement was often festering with trolls, vulgarity, vitriol and heavy handed screeds—not true engagement and sharing of opinion. I found it very odd that with the evolution of the Web, people seemed to be bereft of basic courtesy and the ability to engage in polite digital conversation even if that discourse was at odds with each other. It was as if everyone had become 15-years-old and discovered that the least common denominator was an immediate personal attack to marginalize an opinion that differed from his or hers. I’ve often called this the bravery of being out of range, but it is something more, something slightly insidious to be honest.

One of the keys to new Formula One racing fans is finding a place where they can ask questions, no matter how rudimentary, and feel safe for doing so. Before I started F1B, I would post comments on other sites, and the trolls would berate anyone with a low post or comment count. Forums seemed to breed pride over length of membership and post or comment count. A person who had 12,000 comments in a forum would often tell a new member that they were idiots and knew nothing because of their low post count. I found that astounding as I have been watching the sport since 1972 and most of these people weren’t alive then. Forum software breeds this pride and arrogance. I even had a moderator accuse me of being a redundant news site, which, of course, couldn’t be farther from the truth, and this was a moderator on a forum for a major American broadcast network.

I discovered that true engagement was never going to happen in places where the members didn’t share a commonality and respect for each other, so I created F1B with that intent.

CiviliNation: On your Code of Conduct page it says that there is “one simple rule at F1B: Decorum and Civility!” How do you define decorum and civility?

Todd McCandless: To us, Decorum & Civility is the one rule we do have at F1B. It means that we encourage everyone to engage and share their opinion but to do so with decorum and civility… which means no personal attacks. You don’t agree with someone? Fine, simply say “I don’t agree with that and here is why”. No personal attacks. An opinion is simply an opinion but a person is much more. We feel that our community deserves more from engagement and we work very hard to deliver a safe harbor for all of them.

CiviliNation: Have there been any incidences where readers or community members violated the rules? How did you manage that?

Todd McCandless: I have only had to ban one person since 2005, but I would be remiss in not admitting that the occasional outburst doesn’t happen. What we find is that it usually comes from a person who saw a Tweet or Facebook post and then happens to click through to the site. They are not regulars at F1B and it immediately shows. The prevailing notion—and this is why I love the work your organization is doing—is that you can drift from site to site and forum to forum and the conventional culture is to offer a drive-by commentary ripe with foul language and vitriol. This has, sadly, become perfectly acceptable and the norm for many. Most people wouldn’t walk into a coffee shop, hear a person talking and walk up to that individual and say, “you’re a @&$#%& idiot… you don’t know #$%&$ about that!” So why do you do it online?

When a person does discover F1B and lobs a foul grenade in the discussion, our members are the first to respond and usually say something like, “Dude… decorum and civility, we don’t stand for personal attacks at F1B and here is a link to our code of conduct.” I’ve had to do very little policing of the site because we have such a great community that takes care of it themselves.

When someone does continue, I will weigh in and politely explain that there are lots of places that this type of discourse is allowed and even encouraged, and we would recommend visiting those sites instead. We really do appreciate them taking time to share their opinion and would love to have them as a part of our community, but they must follow our one, simple rule… decorum and civility, which means no personal attacks.

CiviliNation: You’ve had great success in creating a fun and engaged community. Given this success, why do you think that other communities don’t follow suit?

Todd McCandless: I honestly wish I knew the answer to that question. Why would a community that I frequented back in 2004 and 2005 allow the language, comments and personal attacks? Why do they allow it today? I thought, at first, it was just an issue of youth, and that can still be part of the equation, but I’ve seen some very harsh words from adults, and it really is disheartening. The impersonal nature of the Internet creates and isolation that has apparently has never been properly defined.  When people are giving their opinion they do it with bravado and can troll those who disagree with immunity. Perhaps, and just perhaps, F1B has discovered that when a people want something, they will change their tune. Being served at a restaurant places you in a very different mindset than being the one serving at the restaurant. I will always try to exhibit servant leadership, and maybe it is this that sets F1B apart.

CiviliNation: What recommendations would you give other sites that are interested in growing their communities and at the same time supporting a positive online culture?

Todd McCandless: I would say ignore the lack of traffic and get back to building a community that you really want. Define the code of ethics for the site, and that becomes the grand equalizer that all of you follow. Sure you can allow trolls and drive-by shooters, and the increase in traffic is nice, but I think it is better to create a safe harbor for your members at the expense of traffic. Lead by example even when trolls do arrive at your site. I’ve been personally attacked at F1B but try to remain calm, keep the temperature cool and continually ask them to find a much better website that encourages their method of discourse. Lastly, never take your community for granted, and always remind them how honored you are that they are the reason the site exists and that they are the creators of the culture by which all of you participate.  Decorum & Civility… no personal attacks!

 

Filed Under: Cybercivility Tagged With: Anger Management, Civility, Conflict Resolution, Freedom of Speech

  • « Previous Page
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
  • 6
  • Next Page »

Recent news

  • Thank You and Goodbye June 17, 2021
  • FIR Interview March 17, 2021
  • Branded Harassment: When Brands Start the Conversation and Haters Take It Over March 11, 2021
  • The Backpack Show March 2, 2021

© 2021 CiviliNation